Monday, February 9, 2009

lesson 2

COMMUNICATION DEVICES ( process)

sender- the person who sent the message
reciever- the person who got the message
ancode - ideas in the head or our thoughts
eg: you never come to class
just in mind never tell it out,running in the mind
the way we say it in a different way
tone differents and actions
email and telephone
decode - interprate it differently
eg: just tell her you look nice
but in the mind you look ugly
feedback- different perpestive

3 types of noises

EXTERNAL NOISE - from outside base
eg: bus,loud music
INTERNAL NOISE - inside our mind
eg: thinkingin the mind
SAMETHIC- words not suite to our action, verbal and actions opposites
eg: telling something funny very seriously

Types of feedbacks
POSITIVE - compliments
eg: your speech is nice
NEGATIVE - adjustment,criticize
eg: you should upgrade your speech
PERSON FOCUS MESSAGE- more to outfeed (not the content)
eg: you look nice
IMMEDIATE - feedback on the spot
DELAY - later,answer given take time
eg: assignments
LOW MONITORING - no thinking about it
answer fast
honest
HIGH MONITORING - take time to think
carefully construct
FEED FOWARD - giving some preview before getting feedback
eg: assignmnets giving proposal

PHITIC COMMUNICATION
open the channel of communication
eg: newly meet just say hi
talk for the sake

DISCLAIM MESSAGE
trying to defend self before start to message
before people jugde us
eg: I went to USA,but i am not boasting up

ALTERCAST
saying in the specific roles
eg: as a doctor I am not allowed to dance in the pub

DISCUSSION IN THE CLASS
relationship
types of relationship
share the experience of the one who is in a relationship